Liz suggests this, “Make a list of the non-negotiables for the wedding planning. Anything else, be chilled about. No one gets their perfect wedding, so it’s not worth trying to micromanage every detail.”
Chana suggests a short engagement “Saves a lot of fighting and turmoil. Less time means less options for decisions and debate etc.”
Sarah gave great advice: For engagement: “The most important thing is your relationship! Wedding details are nice but not nearly as important.
And remember to thank people who are making an effort to make your engagement and wedding better. I feel like brides get caught up in their personal excitement and forget about everyone else who is working hard to make it amazing. Your bridesmaids will definitely appreciate this!”
Liz: “Don’t buy a house 2 weeks after you get married!”
Eden: “Stay calm! It is not worth it to freak out over every detail. Pick one or two things that are about only you and focus on that (ie dress, hair, make up, bridesmaids stuff, etc) Let your mom handle the crazy part. It allows for you to be calmer and happier on the day of.”
Laura emphasizes the importance of comfort with these bits of advice: “Wear comfortable shoes and just dance the night away! Get a comfort fit engagement ring and wedding band! It is so much more comfortable you’ll always be able to wear it.”
Noa: “To hire Aliyah as your wedding planner.” (I promise I didn’t pay her to say that!)
Karen says, “Bathroom baskets are a must for womens washrooms. Don’t forget the essentials like spray deodorant, hairspray, hair pins and band aids!”